The last time I asked my girlfriend for anal, she told me "only if I do you first." So what the hell... we tried it. I picked this dildo because it's about the same size and shape as the real me. We had fun, but there are some issues. Pros: good size and shape. The head is bigger than the shaft so you get that "shovel" effect. It's a little over six inches long and nearly two inches thick. Color is good--nice to see something other than pink or black! Balls are nice and fleshy. Material is smooth and won't irritate the skin. Cons: this dildo is WAY more floppy than a real cock. My girl really had to struggle to get it inside me. Even after she did, she couldn't get a good pumping rhythm going because it would bend. She ended up sucking my cock while I sat on the dildo. Fun for both of us, but I think more experienced users--or anyone wanting a real ram jam--will want to look elsewhere. The suction cup is good but not great. Summary: fair value for the price. Good size and color. Better if it was stiffer. That's what she said!